20 Things Most People Learn Too Late In Life

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Life is a journey of twists and turns, peaks and valleys, mountains to climb and oceans to explore.

Good times and bad times. Happy times and sad times.

But always, life is a movement forward.

No matter where you are on the journey, in some way, you are continuing on — and that’s what makes it so magnificent. One day, you’re questioning what on earth will ever make you feel happy and fulfilled. And the next, you’re perfectly in flow,写你整个职业生涯中最重要的一本书.

What nobody ever tells you, though, when you are a wide-eyed child, are all the little things that come along with “growing up.”

1.大多数人害怕发挥想象力。

他们与内心的孩子失去了联系。

他们觉得自己没有“创造力”

他们喜欢事情“就是这样”

2. Your dream doesn’t really matter to anyone else.

Some people might take interest. Some may support you in your quest. But at the end of the day, nobody cares, or will ever care about your dream as much as you.

3. Friends are relative to where you are in your life.

Most friends only stay for a period of time — usually in reference to your current interest. But when you move on, or your priorities change, so too do the majority of your friends.

4.你的潜力随着年龄的增长而增加。

As people get older, they tend to think that they can do less and less — when in reality, they should be able to do more and more, because they have had time to soak up more knowledge. Being great at something is a daily habit. You aren’t just “born” that way.

5.自发性是创造力的姐妹。

If all you do is follow the exact same routine every day, you will never leave yourself open to moments of sudden discovery. Do you remember how spontaneous you were as a child? Anything could happen, at any moment!

6.你后来忘记了“触摸”的价值。

When was the last time you played in the rain?

你上一次坐在人行道上仔细观察裂缝、岩石、泥土,以及附近混凝土和草地之间生长的杂草是什么时候。

再来一次。

你会觉得自己和生活的乐趣联系在一起。

7. Most people don’t do what they love.

这是真的。

“大众”不是那些过着他们梦想的生活的人。原因是他们打得不够努力。他们不是自己造成的。你年纪越大,环顾四周的次数越多,你就越容易相信自己最终还是原来的样子。

Don’t fall for the trap.

8. Many stop reading after college.

问问你认识的人他们读过的最后一本好书,我敢打赌他们中的大多数人都会回答,“Wow, I haven’t read a book in a long time.”

9人们说的比听的多。

对我来说,没有什么比听到两个人互相“对着”说话更可笑的了,两个人都不听,而是等着对方停止说话,这样他们才能重新开始。

10. Creativity takes practice.

It’s funny how much we as a society praise and value creativity, and yet seem to do as much as we can to prohibit and control creative expression unless it is in some way profitable.

如果你想让你的创意肌肉pumped and active, you have to practice it on your own.

11. “Success” is a relative term.

作为孩子,我们被教导“走向成功”

What does that really mean? Success to one person could mean the opposite for someone else.

定义你自己的成功。

12. You can’t change your parents.

A sad and difficult truth to face as you get older: You can’t change your parents.

他们就是他们。

Whether they approve of what you do or not, at some point, no longer matters. Love them for bringing you into this world, and leave the rest at the door.

13早上你唯一要面对的人就是你自己。

When you’re younger, it feels like you have to please the entire world.

You don’t.

Do what makes you happy, and create the life you want to live for yourself. You’ll see someone you truly love staring back at you every morning if you can do that.

14. Nothing feels as good as something you do from the heart.

再多的金钱、成就或外在的认可也无法取代你出于纯粹的爱所做的一切。

跟着你的心走,其他的也会跟着走。

15. Your potential is directly correlated to how well you know yourself.

Those who know themselves and maximize their strengths are the ones who go where they want to go.

那些不了解自己的人,避免了向内看的辛苦工作,过着默认的生活。他们缺乏为自己创造未来的能力。

16. Everyone who doubts you will always come back around.

That kid who used to bully you will come asking for a job.

不想和你约会的女孩一看到你的去向就会给你回电话。总是这样。

Just focus on you, stay true to what you believe in, and all the doubters will eventually come asking for help.

17. You are a reflection of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

没有人自己创造自己。

我们都是镜像,通过我们在别人身上看到的反射来塑造。这不是你一个人玩的游戏。工作时要被那些你想成为的人所包围,而且随着时间的推移,你也会在他们身上带上你所欣赏的东西。

18信念与你所追求的有关。

无论你身在何处,基于你身边的人,基于你当前的抱负,这些都是塑造你信仰的东西。

Nobody explains, though, that “beliefs” then are not “fixed.” There is no “right and wrong.” It is all relative.

Find what works for you.

19. Anything can be a vice.

小心点。

再说一次,随着年龄的增长,没有“对”和“错”。一个人的应对机制可能是另一个星期天放松的一种方式。只要保持对你的习惯和你如何花费时间,以及什么习惯开始增加频率的意识,然后质疑它们是从哪里来的,为什么你觉得有必要重复它们。

从不犯错,总是教训。

As I said, know yourself.

20你的目标是成为你自己。

What is the meaning of life?

做你自己,做你所有的人,永远,做你所做的每一件事——无论这对你意味着什么。你是你自己的创造者。你是你自己进化的杰作。

成长就是认识到你既是雕塑者又是雕塑家,既是画家又是肖像。你想怎么画就怎么画。

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