More opportunities, meaning, joy, friends— All of that, by shifting from self-absorption to self-forgetfulness — Self-Absorption → Self-Forgetfulness It’s 5 o'clock in the afternoon, you’re sitting on a bench in the city center. You are completely lost in a daily thought process, when an astonishing blondie passes by, standing literally five feet from you. She’s talking on the phone. She’s definitely your type, maybe the girl that you’d…