‘我要谈论性,卡明和指法自己,剃光我的混蛋。I’m going to own that, and I’m going to put it out there, because fuck you.’ — Cakeboy is a gay men’s magazine that isn’t “gay” or “male,” according to its founder Sean Santiago, who chooses not to use those words to describe himself either. Rather, he considers Cakeboy’s identity, like his own, to be more of an ever-evolving conversation — a collaborative gesture toward something better…