四年前我儿子出生时，我写了两个帖子关于我的第一个想法作为父亲。四年 +一个女儿后来，这是续集。

重新评估我的优先事项

Two of the qualities I valued the most before having children were intellect and wit (if asked, I’d list integrity as the most important virtue, though to my shame I admit that I wouldn’t avoid the company of a witty scoundrel (whereas I would avoid the company of a decent dullard)).